Shana sparked my interest in this subject with her facebook status...the word "hoe" is so overrated nowadays because casual sex is so normal. Society tells us that to be sexually free is ok, as long as your protecting yourself. But is a condom or birth control all you need to be protected?
Many times we fail to realize that sex is an emotional act. I don't care who you are, how "player" you may seem to be. Sex is emotional. You have sex for a reason, all sparked from one emotion. So my question to all my readers is, does a condom or birth control protect you from getting your emotions all tangeled up in a web? Are certain people worth getting tangeled up with?
Are you mature enough to even handle certain emotions that may surface? Are you willing you deal with certain emotion that will surface? Are u strong enough to overcome emotions that will surface?
I'm not knocking casual sex, if you do it and thats your thing than fine. but i want everyone to be aware. Sex is not just sex. Sooner or later there will be a time and place to deal with those emotions. trust me. Until that time comes...protect yourselves. Protect your emotions.
Many times we fail to realize that sex is an emotional act. I don't care who you are, how "player" you may seem to be. Sex is emotional. You have sex for a reason, all sparked from one emotion. So my question to all my readers is, does a condom or birth control protect you from getting your emotions all tangeled up in a web? Are certain people worth getting tangeled up with?
Are you mature enough to even handle certain emotions that may surface? Are you willing you deal with certain emotion that will surface? Are u strong enough to overcome emotions that will surface?
I'm not knocking casual sex, if you do it and thats your thing than fine. but i want everyone to be aware. Sex is not just sex. Sooner or later there will be a time and place to deal with those emotions. trust me. Until that time comes...protect yourselves. Protect your emotions.
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